Why You Should Always Praise Your Wife.
My son,
Never, let other men out do you on praising your wife. You should always make sure she is properly praised. So often times, we get in the normal routine of life and we forget to let our spouse know how much they mean to us. We began to get into the mundane and start to see all the things our spouse does wrong and commit on what we see them doing wrong in our eyes. We don't give thanks to what they are doing or trying to do to help accomplish God's mission in the family's life, or gain confidence in one another. You should always praise your wife because it shows her that you love and appreciate her, it keeps the wolves away and she will not form an emotional connection with another and praise builds her confidence in herself.
When you give praise to your wife it shows that you love her and appreciate all the things she does for you and the family. So often times, a wife has to cook, clean the house and the children, teach the children, help with the homework and take the children to practice, games and other events. This is a job in it's self not to mention that some wives have a full time job. That is not all that she does. She still has to take care of your needs as well. All of this can get over whelming and cause stress to her if not supported by words of encouragement and praise. A wife needs to know that what she does is not taken for granted or done in vein. If a wife feels this way, it could lead to depression and unhappiness; however words of encouragement can bring her back to life.
Some marriages end in divorce because a husband doesn't praise his wife, he takes what she does for granted and then her comes a guy that gives her praise everyday. The guy listens to her and accepts her as she is, he sees all the thing she does and let her know that she is good and special. She could form an emotional connection with the guy and next thing you know she is saying bye bye. So don't put her in the position of hearing another guy show appreciation and admiration to her more than you. Even if a guy may really think that your wife is a good person and appreciates her, as long as you out do his praise, she will always be there for you.
When you praise your wife it builds her confidence in herself and in her standing in the marriage. If you always tell here what she is doing wrong, it can tear her spirit and bring her down and this will bring your family down. If she is built up by you and the word of God, she has a stronger foundation. Praising her supports her and in turn she is readily available to support you and the family.
God wants our praise. We are not God, but we are his children. We want praise as well. So always say good things about your wife to her, yourself and others. Let people know that you are the luckiest man in the world and that you have The Good Wife. Let people and your wife know that you know that you have found a good thing. Fill your heart with praises so that your mouth may speck it.
To often we allow our situations and circumstances to dictate to us how we react. This can not happen if we have a purpose in life and we set goals to reach that purpose. Without a purpose we are controlled by life and we are not controlling our lives. With prayer and a strong relationship with God, we begin to learn our purpose and become more confident in life and develop Game. Game is God Against Mine Enemy. Like a Pit bull latches on to it's target, holds on tight and has to be forced away from it's target, so should we latch on to our God given purpose. Once we find our purpose, we must latch on to it, set goals for it, and don't let situations and circumstances deter us from it.
